Dance Rape

Ok so last weekend I'm out dancing with my girls and this place we were at was crowddeeddd.
It's not really a big deal, I love dancing and there wasn't much I could do about it so I made the most of it.

I was dancing with my girls and some guy comes up to me and starts to dance with me.
Don't get me wrong I love dancing with guys but depending on the guy, doing the same move can become tiring.
So I decided to take a break and the second I get back on the floor some guy tries to pull me to dance with him.
I really don't like to turn people down, I like to be fair. So I carried on one more dance with a random man.

I'm finally left to groove with my girls and 10 seconds later I am being pulled again!
((I mean damn I know how to break it down but there's only so much cake to go around!))
I felt so bad but I seriously could not... It was getting madd hott in that joint, perspiration was occurring, and time was tickin.
It's flattering that others enjoy me, but it's important that I enjoy MYself as well.
So I said to this guy "I'm really sorry but I'm going to dance with my girls."
This fool starts making a scene!! He goes "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" storms off and goes "whatever, such a bitch"
I mean come on... it literally isn't the end of the world. It's kinda funny if you think about it.

Guys grab and yank you, don't even really ask to dance, they just kind of hump you. I guess thats just my generation?
A lot of the time there's some unnecessary touching and feeling. Being groped uncontrollably may seem hott to you, but it's just straight up not a fun time for me. (don't take my word for it, some girls like it)
I'm just not really down with that kinda PDA if you know what I mean.

I was having a small conversation with an interesting character at a party once.
He attempted to woo me by telling me that he was the best dancer within his fraternity... this I had to see
We hit the dance floor and He began to dance. He started doing this Michael Jackson-like thing where he was touching himself and moving his feet relatively fast. Then he took his hat off and tried to swerve it around my face which ended up being a fail not only the first time, but the 5th.
After the first time I told him to stop he decided to switch it up.
This crazy kicked the back of my legs ( hoping they would give in) in order to dip me by surprise if that makes any sense.
After telling him multiple times to stop raping me with his straw hat and literally kicking my ass I had to walk away.
As I was walking away he goes "I told you you couldn't handle my moves"
Uhh yeah, I thought we were dancing, not kickboxing. Didn't know I would be getting the shit kicked out of me.... I just signed up for a dance.

Sometimes there's an attempted make out sesh which in some cases is fine cause thats what some girls are looking for, but it's just not my style especially if I don't know you.
One guy attempted this and I pulled away, then he tried again and I just laughed and told him I didn't know him.
Then he asks me my name. I told him and he told me his. Then he tried again!!
For the second time I reminded him that I didn't know him and wasn't going to do that.

((This is where it gets good))

Then he says "What if we were on a beach right now?"
Seriously...? Like actually did you just say that to me??
Listen, I don't care where we are located but if this dancing wasn't even happening I'm  not sure id even start a conversation with you because you obviously have some sort of problem listening...
He ended up being so frustrated that he walked away, which was a small miracle for me considering I kept my mouth shut and attempted not to be rude.


Listen I'm just trying to have fun. Thats all I'm sayin, so lets dance.... just don't rape me.